I want to start this topic about: What are the best or worst comments your friends have made to you about being trans?
My own reply: I have had mainly good comments from my valued friends there is however those people that are 'so called friends' I know have been nasty behind my back. I tend to get embarrassed if people say nice things about me and I react badly to nasty ones, I still have that 'Do you see me as women?' complex.
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I am a transgender woman, I transitioned back in 1995 and later had GCS (gender confirmation surgery), I think of myself as a woman and feel that family and friends treat me as such, I am a lucky gal. PM me for a chat if you want.
Basically had a friend whom rather misgendered and dead name me, so that's a bad one and also had a friend that said I was "trying to be a woman".
Maybe the best one was that i'm beautiful on the inside and out.
Being a transgendered woman, and cross-dressing, is something that is just a way of life for me now. Sure, there are always people who are going to tease me about this, but I really don't give a shit about their stupid, hateful, degrading comments. These people are ignorant, and intolerant, and don't understand that this is who I am, and if I choose to express my slutty side, then, this is what I am damn well going to do. Of course, my really close friends have been so supportive, and so caring.
I am what I am, and I do not apologize for being a true transgendered woman.
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Jayme Alexandria
- Wow I would have never guessed! You're still a great person to me!
- You're sick, should keep the fetishes for behind closed doors and don't get the whole world involved.
- But, you're really just a girl! This is in your head!
- Oh this is interesting. You're so courageous.
- Me, I thought I was a boy all my childhood but I got over it.
- I don't understand; you want to become a girl?
- You know, your transformation isn't really up to point.
- But I can still call you she right? And (deadname)?
- It doesn't matter what gender you are, you're my friend. You could call yourself an helicopter and I'd still love you.
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So to me, they're all bad to some level. From uninformed, ignorant, sometimes transphobic folks, because that's what our society is made of. Most of them don't really want to get informed either.
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